Both kittens and pups go through important socialization times when they are very young. It is vital that they be exposed to multiple people and situations before they are 12 weeks of age. If they are not the negative effects can last a lifetime.
Most people adopt a new kitten or puppy at about 8 weeks of age. Some important considerations when adopting:
- Have they been exposed to multiple people along the way?
- Does the breeder or shelter emphasize human contact?
- Have they been exposed to other species? (e.g. kittens with pups etc.)
- Have they had some exposure to the outside world? (puppies)
- When you handle your prospective pet, are they aggressive, shy, or just playful?
The earliest socialization occurs between littermates. They learn not to bite too hard and not to scratch. If you adopt an orphan, they may not have learned these lessons. It will take a little more work on your part to teach them what is acceptable behavior.
We emphasize kindergarten for puppies. Many trainers offer classes for pups that offer some time for socializing too. This is the first class in what should be a series to shape the dog you want to live with over the long term. A trainer once told me – “we all get the dog we deserve.”
In our area I have not seen any kindergarten classes for kittens. If you have a friend with a young cat you might try to get them together. Just be prepared for the “zoomies”. If you introduce a kitten into a household with adult cats, they will teach the youngster the rules. I recommend gradual introduction and giving the adults off time from an energetic kitten.
Corona virus is interfering with our socialization recommendations right now. There are no kindergarten classes for pups, and it is harder to get kittens or puppies a lot of social contact with people outside of your immediate household. For puppies you might consider a long leash and the cooperation of friends or neighbors. If you have a 10 to 15 ft. leash you can allow people to pet your new pet without breaking the 6 ft. rule of social distancing. This process is more difficult with kittens, as they usually are not good on a leash. You might put the kitten in a big box and then invite a friend to play with the kitty in that confined space.
Like everything during these trying times socialization of pups and kittens is challenging. It may take some creativity to work this out depending on your situation. The effort will be well worth it.
It is also important to teach puppies that they will be alone part of the time. If you are at home all the time now, the puppy will expect that to always be true. When you go back to work the pup may develop separation anxiety. So sometimes when you run errands confine the pup to a crate or other small area. Supply some distraction like a toy (e.g. a Kong with treats packed inside). When you return – do not make a big deal about it. Reward your pup and take them outside to relieve themselves.
You should teach your pup basic commands e.g. sit, stay, down. Training centers are not open currently, so it is up to you to start your pet off right. Reinforce their name over and over again. Always use positive reinforcement with your training. I like to have my dog do at least 1 command before feeding.
Above all – enjoy your new companion!!
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